we aim to please
"I've always loved the idea of not being what people expect me to be"
I want you to remember who you are, despite the bad things that are happening to you. Because those bad things aren’t you. They are just things that happen to you. You need to accept that who you are and the things that happen you, are not one and the same.
—  Colleen Hoover, Hopeless (via wnq-anonymous)
When people are insulting you, there is nothing so good for them as not to say a word – just to look at them and think. When you will not fly into a passion people know you are stronger than they are, because you are strong enough to hold in your rage, and they are not, and they say stupid things they wished they hadn’t said afterward. There’s nothing so strong as rage, except what makes you hold it in – that’s stronger. It’s a good thing not to answer your enemies.
—  Frances Hodgson Burnett, A Little Princess
(via wordsnquotes)